I just returned from a month's vacation. I spent much of the time in Southern California. When ever I am away I like to visit other churches so I went to four large churches in the O.C. One of the churches had the church "thing" down pat. They had obviously studied the current trends in "ecclesiology" and had aptly applied them. The church setting was dark, ominous. with special lighting for effect. The stage was lit drawing a worshipers attention to the stage. The music was high powered, fantastic! After it was over, a pastor gave what I determined to be, was an "alright" message. But the church was huge! What was it that drew them to this place? I can't say for sure but what I noticed before and after the service was people broke quickly into small groups or huddles and laughed and talked with their friends. It was as if the teaching was secondary. In fact all through the service people trickled into to hear the teaching, most reluctant to break from the fellowship.
After the service I spoke to the pastor and said, "You've got a big thing here man!" where did all these people come from and what keeps them here?". Sadly, the pastor said, "what brings these people here is the fellowship and the music. They just tolerate the sermon. " Then he said something I found very disturbing. "Where do they all come from (long pause)? From other churches". He obviously wasn't happy about it.
Is that what the church in America has been reduced to...social activities clubs?
In Matthew 20 Jesus approaches two blind beggars at the gates of Jericho with this question: "What is it you want from Me?" Sounds like a dumb question really. I mean it's obvious what these men need. But I suggest the question was the right one to ask these men because they had become accustomed to their blindness, the smirks, the pity by passersby, and begging hoping for a few coins to get them thru the day and the next and the next. "What do you really want from Me" is how I would rephrase the question. "Just a few bones or do you want more from yourself and from Me?"
As you know one of the men, Bartimaeus stepped out of his boxed thinking and said, "master we want to see" and both men were healed and followed Jesus.
Why are you a follower of Christ? Why do you go to church? For the fellowship? The great music? Because your friends go there? Because it's the hot happening show in town? What do you want from your Christian experience, yourself, and from God?
Are you under the false delusion that all that is expected of you is to pray a prayer of salvation and wait and make the most of this life until you die or Christ returns?
I hope not. We are called to serve, to make disciples, to make a stand for him, to grow for the purpose of reaching out to others.
I remember an old Jeff Foxworthy joke that said rednecks love family reunions because it was a great place to meet babes. If Church and Christianity has become is nothing more than a social club then maybe I ought to join 24 hour fitness or something. I don't know about you but I expect more from myself, my church expereince, and especially from God.
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Church: A Great plaace to Meet Babes
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Very good thoughts Steve. It is sad to see what we have let church become, isn't it?
You said, "...but I expect more from myself, my church expereince, and especially from God."
Me too.
Our Christian walk should be reflecting how much we love our God, a reflection of Him, and honoring to Him; not an excuse to sleep till He comes.
Thanks for this reminder for us to wake up.
Steve,
How much of this is because we are not teaching people what is expected of them? When a person becomes a Christian they are not going to automatically know what to do. I have seen very little real discipling done in my 37 years as a Christian.
This "social club syndrome" is especially rampant in youth groups and young adult groups. Before I came to Calvary Chapel, I went to another youth group when I was 13-14. Not only did they tolerate the kids breaking into their own little groups afterward and beforehand, they promoted it. They called each part of the youth group service "_____ time," like "worship time," "game time," or "group time." That part where everybody went and socialized in their own little groups was "social time." It was as much a part of the agenda as everything else. They even let each little group name themselves, and when it was time to play games, you could root for a certain group. When my brother and I came to that youth group, we had a very hard time fitting in at all. We both kinda stood in the corner by the door. Friendly people would be happy to come up and hold a conversation with you, but they were eager to go back to the friends they already know. The worship service was more a great time to jump up and down while waving your hands and having your ears damaged, than it was a great time for those who actually wanted to worship. Trying to fit in with that youth group suddenly seemed so pointless that my brother and I gave up trying. This church is also huge, with well over a thousand. Social Club Syndrome is a deadly disease, but it is attractive to everyone except those who really want to worship. Of course, I think this disease often spreads to all of Christianity. Christians in general tend to only listen to their Christian music and keep to their Christian friends and get Christian jobs to earn Christian money to feed their Christian families Christian food. That's not at all Christian, or Christ-like. Thank you as always for your insights Steve. God Bless!
Culture has certainly changed and there is a desire to "experience" Christianity rather than hear about it. While hearing the Word should be an experience with God, people are not "trained" in how to interact with God's word. When I say trained, I mean that we are a media driven (MTV, TV, web, instant everything) culture. To sit and listen without the screen changing every 4 seconds is somewhat foreign for them.
There is some advantage in this. Let me explain. People desire to experience the Word in action (fellowship, worship). I think that the next 100 years of "doing church" will have more to do with taking people on the road (Mexico, Africa, downtown, adopting kids, etc.) and teaching them along the way (isn't this what Jesus did for three years with his disciples?).
Whereas it used to be like pulling teeth to get people to get up out of their seats and act, they are now taking vacations to go dig a well in Honduras, and replacing Disneyland with a Oaxaca orphanage.
Suddenly, it's our opportunity to bring the word alive- when they are teachable (after all, when are people extremely teachable? When they are vulnerable, in crisis or out of their comfort zone). With the looming crisis of AIDS, overpopulation, crumbling economies, there will be more opportunities for American Christians to act- the Word in Action. It doesn't mean we don't teach, but it may mean that our expectations of preaching change. Our job as teachers is not to control the response, but just be obedient and deliver the Word. Keep delivering. We're just the messengers.
Kevin
AS a teacher (you) your comments about the future of learn bing "on the road" are probably right on! That format allows for relationship, instruction, doing, questioning, Integrity...wow! What a great insight...Im up for it! In fact I love it!
Hey Steve. This is great. I really like what you say. And what it attracts for commentary. Refreshing. After much disappointment watching the blogscape wallow in the mire. Please keep up the good work... there is much potential as I'm sure you see. I may even try and call you one of these days. blessings, stan
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